A child under five can enjoy live music, at the right concert. Choose a short one made for young children, sit near an exit, and plan to leave while it is still going well. A full evening concert is a hard place to start.
Choose the right concert
| Kind of concert | Why it works |
|---|---|
| Concerts for babies and toddlers | Short, often with floor seating, and noise is expected |
| Family concerts | Often under an hour, with a host who talks to the children |
| Outdoor concerts | Room to move, and no one minds a wiggle |
| Relaxed or sensory-friendly concerts | Lower volume, lights left on, and freedom to move |
| Open rehearsals | Informal, and easy to leave |
| School, library, and community concerts | Short, close, and low in cost |
| A student recital | Short pieces, and other children on stage |
Before you book, check the age rule. Some halls set a minimum age for evening concerts. Some orchestras list their family concerts on a page of their own.
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By age
| Age | What to expect | What suits |
|---|---|---|
| Under 1 | May sleep, feed, or watch the lights | A concert for babies, or outdoors |
| 1 to 2 | Wants to move and to make noise | Outdoor concerts and toddler concerts |
| 3 to 4 | Can sit for a short piece, and asks questions | Family concerts with a story or a host |
Every child is different. You know yours.
Pick the time
- Morning or early afternoon suits a small child.
- Plan around the nap. A tired child will struggle.
- Feed your child first.
- Arrive early. Find the toilets, the exits, and your seats before the music starts.
Where to sit
- On the aisle, near a door. You can step out without climbing over anyone. Read where to sit at a concert with kids.
- Not in the front row. It is loud there, and hard to leave.
- Where your child can see. A child who can see the players has more to watch. Ask about booster cushions.
- On a lap for the youngest. Ask whether a lap child needs a ticket.
Protect small ears
An orchestra can be loud, and so can an outdoor concert near the speakers. Sit farther back, and bring earmuffs made for children. Read ear protection for kids at concerts.
Get ready at home
- Play the music first. Then your child has a tune to listen for.
- Play “concert.” Line up the stuffed toys. One person plays, and the rest listen and clap.
- Explain three things: we sit, we listen, and we clap at the end.
- Show a picture of an orchestra, and name two instruments to look for.
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What to bring
- Earmuffs made for children
- A drink in a cup that does not spill
- A small, silent toy or a soft book
- A snack for before and after, to eat outside the hall
- A spare layer, since halls can be cool
- Wipes
Leave toys that rattle, beep, or light up at home.
During the concert
- Whisper what is happening. “Look, the drums.” “Here comes the quiet part.”
- Let small moves go. Swaying and conducting with a finger are fine.
- Step out early. Go at the first sign of fuss, not the third. Come back in between pieces if your child settles.
- Leave at the break if your child has had enough. Half a concert that went well is a success.
If it goes wrong
It happens. Step out, take a walk, and try a different kind of concert in a few months. One hard afternoon says nothing about how your child will feel at six.
After the concert
- Ask what your child saw and heard.
- Play one of the pieces at home that week.
- Draw the loudest instrument.
- Act out the concert with toys.
When to try a full concert
There is no set age for a full concert. Signs that a child is ready:
- Can sit through a film or a long story
- Can whisper
- Asks to go
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Music at home counts too
A living room is a fine first concert hall. Read how to watch an orchestra concert at home with kids and music and movement activities for preschoolers and toddlers.
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Use it with your kids
Print a listening page, a practice chart, or a composer fact sheet. Or try a tool, such as the composer timeline or the piece picker.